For the past 23 years, my parents have unselfishly gave of themselves to make sure that my sister and I, along with others, have had the opportunity to obtain a wonderful education. Today the selflessness continued at PCA 6th grade orientation. I’m forever thankful for the many sacrifices they’ve made to ensure I had the best education. I wouldn’t be the woman I am today without their unconditional love, support, and sacrifices.

 

No one of the first words a baby learns and uses. But somehow in my adult life I have lost the unction to use the word NO.  I especially hate to use the word NO when it is something that I know I can handle. Every Christmas my job sponsors a local elementary school. Last Christmas my department needed someone to lead the charge. Immediately everyone pointed at me since I was the only there from the previous year that was involved with the project. The manager said she would help with whatever but she just couldn’t commit to leading. I told them to give me a few days to decide.  I weighed the pros and cons and looked at my schedule over the next few days, and it just wasn’t looking good. I would be able to lead the project but I wouldn’t be able to dedicate the time and energy as much as I would like.  I talked it over with some coworkers who knew how full my plate was and they thought I was crazy for even considering it. After a week of wrestling with the idea, I let the team know that I wouldn’t be able to lead. 

I remember going home that night and crying because I felt like I let those precious children down. The one who stepped up to lead the team came and thanked me for declining because she had such a wonderful time learning about the class and making a difference in those kids life. One of my New Years resolution’s was to use the word no more. I often neglected myself for others. I would go to the mall with a list of something I was, and come out with bags for everyone but myself. Somewhere along the lines of caring for others, I neglected myself. Using the word no has been very freeing lately. I finally feel like the world doesn’t end if I say no. Who knew a 2 letter word could make such a difference. Learn to use the word no!